“People who say they have it hard with a non-ldr relationship have no fucking clue what they are talking about. Being in a relationship with someone who is thousands of miles away from you is hard. Texting them and them telling you that they are sad and upset and not being able to do a damn thing about it but listen to them on the phone is fucking hard. Having a time difference, regardless of wether it’s 2 hours or 10 is fucking hard. Having anniversaries where you bought a flower for yourself because you can’t give them one, is fucking hard. Listening to peoples bullshit about how “long distance relationships don’t work and they are probably cheating on you” is fucking hard..like that thought isn’t already in the back of my head everyday. Being extremely jealous of the people who get to see them everyday and hearing about how much fun they are having together, is fucking hard. The endless hugs and laughter that the have with their friends sucks to hear about because you can’t share in that laughter or fun. I would give anything in the world just for a minute to be in the same room as you and I would cherish every second of it, and yet they act so casual when they see you. Calling them on skype and the call always dropping, sucks. All the “I love you” and “you are perfect” is said over the phone with 2,000+ miles between you. Staying up at night wondering what it would be like to hold them, kiss them and be with them, is hard. My mind has been taken over by the what if’s and all the people they have that would be more than willing to swoop them from underneath me. If someone were to give so much attention to her and flirt with her, there’d be absolutely nothing I could do to stop them, and that KILLS me. There are no goodnight kisses. There are no cuddles and pillow fights and movie dates. Nobody does long distance just to do it, nobody would put themselves through endless tears and lonely nights and dateless anniversaries unless they love that person and wouldn’t mind the distance as long as they have that person to call theirs. Now, please go ahead and tell me how “hard” your face-to-face relationship is”



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